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The Luxury of a Choice Mindset

If you love, go full dive. Nothing good gets away.

In a world where we can choose the outcome of our live, the outcome of our weeks and days, we’re eventually richer and live with more luxury than millions of others in this world. 

With the current refugee crisis and the arrival of many refugees in my home town, I have become more aware and grateful than ever what a luxury it is to choose; to have a choice, to sit in the driver’s seat…

Fear then for us, who still have the luxury to choose, comes in a different shape, doesn't it?!

Let's choose to be decide that basically anything beyond existential fear, can be healthy fear based on the choices we are allowed to make.

In fact...

It is a mindset, a choice to not fear, to have nothing to loose. It is a choice indeed to believe in the abundance of our choices we can make, a choice to choose our thoughts. Thoughts that nurture us, make us come alive, thoughts that answer the question “What makes me come alive?”, “When, in what state of mind and being do I feel most alive?” “ And how can I create my own personal ‘feeling alive’ process?”. Every day.

It is a choice to fear the vulnerable or let vulnerability touch you; or choose vulnerability as a directive of your heart, as a channel for personal growth. So, if you love - go full dive, nothing good gets away. Embrace your vulnerability. Enjoy that you fear... you are progressing to get attached to another heart, your purpose, your favorite project or your path.

With lessons like the above also came the acknowledgement that we have nothing really to loose while we are here. We talk about life circumstances where we all have a cozy bed at the end of the day, and a full dinner table, maybe even served with a glass of wine. What we loose if we don’t choose a mindset of choice is a mediocre purpose for ourselves, something that doesn’t unleash us, something that doesn’t give us a positive and joyful outlook on life; which is something more luxurious than we may realize.

 

If we don’t attach ourselves to anything or anyone, we will never know what it means to be alive, to be authentically alive; we will never find out what we could have seen and learned about ourselves. Get out there and keep choosing.

With lessons like the above also came the acknowledgement that we have nothing really to loose while we are here. We talk about life circumstances where we all have a cozy bed at the end of the day, and a full dinner table, maybe even served with a glass of wine. What we loose if we don’t choose a mindset of choice is a mediocre purpose for ourselves, something that doesn’t unleash us, something that doesn’t give us a positive and joyful outlook on life; which is something more luxurious than we may realize.

If we don’t attach ourselves to anything or anyone, we will never know what it means to be alive, to be authentically alive; we will never find out what we could have seen and learned about ourselves. Get out there and keep choosing.

Attach yourself to your very own choices, that’s what it means to practically follow your heart. Fear is only and will always be relative to the purpose and the purpose strategy we follow. We shall not choose to fear, but choose to love. If you love; go full dive. Nothing good gets away. Period.

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